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New Start
Okay, on Thursday I start my new job. It is a cool job, it is in an area in which I want to work, with links to other ones. I've spent this evening, and much of the last few days, going through practical things big and small, and also small head clearing things. And have managed to ritualise this as a new start. Not completely new, there are awesome continuations, but this will be my year of giving a damn and not, of trying to live to my principles, challenge and question my prejudice and preconceptions, be loud, be considerate. And this is what I want to stick by:

I will improve at calling people out, male and female, queer and  not, left and right wing on their use of  casually sexist, racist, homophobic, transphobic, classist, or ablist comments (thank you the F-Word) and language, and do so when I like and respect the person in question, and do so in a polite manner. And I will listen if people do the same to me.

I will read more widely and be more politically, socially and professionally aware, especially in the fields about which I want to write. (And especially in terms of mental health activism

I will make the most of creative and professional opportunities.

I will, most probably, compromise or adjust what I say (i.e. not say things) around people or audiences, I am never going to stop doing this, some of it is courtesy, some of it is being sensible, some of it being appropriate and some of it self preservation. But I'm going to do it in those circumstances and not as a default reaction or because I don't want to be confrontational.

The same applies to presentation.

I will stop listening to people who tell me that I will be pigeonholed if I mention being affected by issues.

I will be aware of my privilege as well as that of others.

I will abandon my intellectual snobbery regarding education and what subjects, disciplines, forms of education and degree classes/grades are acceptable/respectable.

I will not be an intellectual snob in reverse.

I will undoubtedly fuck up at some point and in some way, but I will acknowledge my mistakes and learn from them.

And I shall be willing to be persuaded, while also willing to argue back.

And two things for  [ profile] secondterminal (1) and [ profile] amagiclantern (2)

(1)I shall respond to the term "facebook rape" by directing the person who makes the comment to the issue of Dinosaur Comics I now cannot find, and for which searching makes me feel wrong.

(2)and, as I said earlier I am going to dress and behave like an angry queer feminist genderfucking office worker in my early twenties, to do a symbolic "fuck you" to my mother and school and retail jobs, and because, to quote xkcd, "we're the grownups now and we get to decide what that means"

Also this year needs a name. Although I'm quite tempted by the Century of the Fruitbat.

There are 9 comments on this entry. (Reply.)
posted by [identity profile] at 09:16am on 02/09/2009
I really like this idea - resolutions for a new era of life. I shall have to try something similar. Yoink.
posted by [identity profile] at 03:26am on 08/09/2009
Thanks. How are you, anyway?
posted by [identity profile] at 03:39pm on 08/09/2009
I seem to be in a very strange place at the moment in my head. It doesn't feel bad, just peculiar. Hopefully will be able to snap out of it as it is quite distracting.
posted by [identity profile] at 04:48pm on 02/09/2009 - this is what you need. And I vow to do the same.
posted by [identity profile] at 04:51pm on 02/09/2009
Also I read that as fruitboat, and like fruitbat more.
posted by [identity profile] at 04:52pm on 02/09/2009
Pratchett reference.
posted by [identity profile] at 09:35pm on 02/09/2009
what is a fruitbats favourite type of fruit?
posted by [identity profile] at 08:56am on 06/09/2009
apricot. (Dried apricots- 3 a day count as a fruit portion. And they're cheap)
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posted by [identity profile] at 04:32pm on 03/09/2009
Century of the Fruitbat sounds delightfully right.


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